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Okay so the major stuff that happened to me recently is going through breakup.
Well..... its really sad and everything but its comforting to have friends whom i least expect to stand by me and by now i learned so much from the relationship.
Firstly, learn to give in . Girls need not win every quarrel and never expect things like your boyfriend would hug you and say "sorry hun i didnt mean to make you unhappy" or like get you chocolates to cheer you up . What i'm referring to is after the relationship past its honeymoon period.
Secondly is patience. I'm still having problems with mine and tend to do stupid things bcos i want things immediately and sometimes regret after that. My first encounter was confronting a girl who spoke to my boyfriend(ex) like everyday. Both of them were like confiding in each other and sharing everything under the sun. So obviously i got jealous so i texted her to scold her and they stopped being friends. It affected the relationship a lot bcos i lost trust from my guy.
Thirdly, don't say mean things you don't mean. For instance, "lets break up" and expect your guy to hold you back every single time bcos he won't. Someday he will get tired and stop trying so hard for you. You would also change him to a person you wouldn't want.
Fourth, don't use crocodile tears. I have to admit i cried purposely sometimes to seek comfort from him because i THOUGHT he would. Sadly, no. It went the opposite way, because when you cry too much it doesn't mean a thing anymore. But still, its perfectly fine to break down sometimes bcos we're HUMAN!
Lastly, not all relationships will last, in fact many don't. I know its hard to go through a break up with someone you really really love a lot and at the end of the day they don't believe you did. You cry so hard but its not going to change anything. But you need to know you cannot ever say you regretted because at one point of time it was all you ever wanted and if you didnt then why get together in the first place right.
So embrace the memories (You would bcos its all you think of aft a breakup) be a better girl . Although these memories will hurt you at first, you will eventually look at it in a different light. And i think someone would definitely stop by for you one day to complete your life.
Okay this is a long post, hehe ^-^ Be happy everyone, happiness is priceless .
Till next time!